Morning friends of mine..
I do hope everyone has been keeping well.. I have thank you.. I’ve tried writing a couple of posts, but haven’t really been able to communicate my thoughts into words.. But this post has nothing to do with anything serious.. I’ve had a humorous morning, and such things require a certain sense of easy going self do deal with.. and right now, I’m in a whimsical mood..
See this morning, I went through 3 different outfit changes.. I work in an easy going office, and we don’t have a strict dress code, so I’m not really fussy about how I dress.. but I am single woman now.. *yes Superman and I broke up..well kinda..I don’t know* so I try a bit more to be appealing to the opposite sex.. This morning I decided a grey pencil skirt and a cleavage revealing bright cerise top with gold accessories would do wonderfully together.. I was right! LOL!! Anyway, I don’t know why I stretched so much instead of climbing into this guys car, and RRRRRRRIIIIIIIPPPPPP! Went my skirt!! lmfao!! I let him drive away cause I was so shocked.. and only told him well on my way to work.. LOL!! I am right now, sitting with a HIGH HIGH slit up my thigh, but luckily I brought along a cardigan..so I’m covered.. and yes, the smart thing would be to quickly go shopping – but I work in a deserted business park in the middle of nowhere.. So for today, I shall entertain my inner exhibitionist and flaunt my sexy.. Don’t worry I work alone! 🙂
So anyway.. last night, I had such a beautiful evening.. I opened a bottle of wine.. a young merlot.. lit candles.. took a bath.. and put on my very favorite cd’s.. now I like I mentioned, I am now a single woman.. and all this relaxation was for nothing.. cause I didn’t get none.. 😦 LOL! Now normally, this wouldn’t be a problem.. but it’s been a while.. By the time I got to my 2nd glass.. I was feeling rather.. spicy, for lack of better word.. and when I found myself playing with hot wax, I realised how serious my yearning is.. LOL!! Anyway, we shall not discuss my lack of sex life!
What I do want to discuss though, is what is acceptable to discuss? I recently made a new friend, a gorgeous 26 year old lady, smart and funny.. Although, she’s always so shocked to hear me describe my take on sex.. trust me, I’m not that graphic.. lol.. a week or so ago I had the pleasure of being in the company of a very very goodlooking man.. and although we’re not in a sexual relationship, he has no quirks about being naked in front of me.. so I was explaining to my friend how amazingly fine this chiseled specimen is..and as I got to describing his member, my friend all but ran away.. LOL!! Maybe I am too forward, but like I said – I have so much Sex and the City influence, and Samantha is always talking about the male anatomy in detail..
My biggest concern though, is coming across as if I’ve been with a lot of men – I haven’t, and as old as we are, people grade you by how you speak about sex, and don’t want to be graded “whore”.. We’re in a modern age yes? and we have become liberated? How do we view sex? Are we Ok with sleeping around as we please? I mean would indulging every man I fancy with a roll in the hay make me whore? what makes one a whore? I mean I like sex.. and while I was in a relationship – I suppose I tied it to an emotion.. but now, my emotions are a lot softer than my physical wants.. but who am I supposed to give it up to? How many part time lovers am I supposed to have?
I’m not an idiot, I know HIV and STD’s are rife.. that’s the biggest thing to consider.. I wouldn’t want to catch something! But is it Ok for a woman to love sex, and not be labeled? I’m not expecting anything of monetary value out of it, and I can separate my emotions.. but is society ready to just see that for what it is? I don’t know..
Ok.. Let me know what you think..